How To Become A Rugged Man: 10 Not-So-Obvious Tips

What is ruggedness? You won’t believe it, but men and women have completely different definitions for this concept. If for a man ruggedness is something primitive, animalistic, and rough, for a woman, it might be as simple as a strong jawline or muscular arms.

So, you may not even realize your ruggedness to a particular lady. AdmiGram.com, based on statistical data, will tell you about the 10 main traits that, in the opinion of most women, make a man rugged in their eyes.

How to become a rugged man: 10 not-so-obvious tips

Grow some stubble

Almost half of women consider a week’s worth of stubble on a man’s face incredibly attractive. They believe that this stubble gives a man a masculine energy. Plus, if you weren’t blessed with a strong jawline, your stubble can easily help you hide this annoying detail.

Don’t dress like a kid

Can you imagine Tom Hardy wearing hipster sneakers and a Simpsons-printed T-shirt? Sounds ridiculous, right? Well, you look the same in women’s eyes when you dress like a teenage boy. Dress like a man, forget about teenage clothes.

Be a rock

Do you know what girls say when asked why they like big guys? They all say that they can hide behind such a guy. In modern society, you don’t necessarily have to be big. Your ability to solve problems adds masculinity to you in an incredible way. The phrase ‘I’ll handle it all’ is magic in any girl’s eyes.

Don’t be friends with the opposite sex

Let’s clarify this. Friendship is good, but only when you don’t want anything more than friendship. But if you want to establish a different kind of relationship with a girl, make it clear from the start that you want to date her and be a couple.

Use your voice correctly

Do you know why your female classmates dreamed of dating older guys? Because they were much more serious and didn’t remind them of emotional and squeaky girlfriends. In adult life, if you want to have a presence in society’s eyes, always speak calmly and in a low voice. Convey meaning with your voice, not just emotions.

Be independent

In a woman’s eyes, your ability to take care of yourself independently is like some primal charm, where the hunter-man kindled a fire to cook food from his own catch. So your independence trumps any ‘mommy’s boy.’

Be clean

The paradox of ruggedness is that women want it to be wild, but at the same time, they want it to be pleasant to the touch. So make it a rule to keep your nails, hair, and unwanted growth in check. Being clean is appealing to women and people in general. A man is a human, not a smelly bear in a den.

Suffer in silence

You should suffer in silence. The saying that ‘men don’t cry’ should be understood as meaning that men don’t whine or complain to others. Even if it’s a broken heart, another increase in gas prices, or that cursed coronavirus that ruined your plans for a trip to Malibu a day before departure.

Have character

Your character should be based on classic masculine principles: unwavering will, a strong desire for justice, and the determination to prove your point reasonably. If you follow these principles, even in the most critical situations, your ironclad resolve will only emphasize your masculinity.

Show interest in extreme sports

You may not be into sports, but if you keep up with the news and understand all the nuances of boxing, hockey, or football, it will definitely earn you points in the ‘brutality’ category. Sports and a real man are always closely related.

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