What is ruggedness? You won’t believe it, but men and women have completely different definitions of this concept. While men view ruggedness as something primitive, animalistic, and rough, women often see it as something as simple as a strong jawline or muscular arms.
You might not even realize how rugged you appear to a particular woman. Based on statistical data, AdmiGram.com highlights the 10 main traits that most women believe make a man look rugged.
How to Become a Rugged Man: 10 Not-So-Obvious Tips
Grow Some Stubble
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Almost half of all women find a week’s worth of stubble incredibly attractive, believing it projects masculine energy. Plus, if you weren’t blessed with a strong jawline, stubble is an easy way to mask it.
Don’t Dress Like a Kid
Can you imagine Tom Hardy wearing hipster sneakers and a Simpsons T-shirt? Sounds ridiculous, right? That’s exactly how you look to women when you dress like a teenage boy. Dress like a man; leave the teenage clothes behind.
Be a Rock
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When asked why they like big guys, many women say they want to feel protected. In modern society, you don’t necessarily have to be physically huge. Your ability to solve problems greatly enhances your masculinity. The phrase “I’ll handle it” is pure magic to any woman.
Don’t Seek Friendship If You Want More
Let’s clarify: friendship is great, but only when you don’t want anything more. If you want a romantic relationship with a woman, make your intentions clear from the start.
Use Your Voice Correctly
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Why do high school girls often dream of dating older guys? Because older guys sound more grounded, not emotional or whiny. In adult life, if you want to command respect, always speak calmly and in a lower register. Convey meaning with your voice, not just raw emotion.
Be Independent
A man who can take care of himself holds a primal charm for women — echoing the provider archetype. True independence will always trump being a “mama’s boy.”
Stay Clean
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The paradox of ruggedness is that women want it to look wild but feel pleasant. Make it a rule to keep your nails, hair, and grooming in check. Being clean is universally appealing. A man is a human being, not a smelly bear in a den.
Suffer in Silence
“Men don’t cry” really means men shouldn’t constantly whine or complain. Keep your composure, whether it’s a broken heart, rising gas prices, or a sudden lockdown that ruined your vacation plans the day before departure.
Have Character
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Base your character on classic masculine principles: an unwavering will, a strong sense of justice, and the determination to defend your point of view rationally. Standing by these principles in critical situations highlights your inner strength.
Show Interest in Sports
You don’t have to be an athlete, but staying informed and understanding the nuances of boxing, hockey, or football definitely adds to your masculine appeal. Sports and masculinity have always been tightly linked.
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