Our communication is a collection of symbols and signals. As science tells us, human communication consists of 55% non-verbal signals, 38% words, and 7% unconscious expressions that don’t signify anything at all. So, non-verbal cues are like indicators on instruments that you need to learn how to read.
If you want to know if a girl is interested in you, you should focus on the non-verbal signals she sends you. Words will never tell you anything. That’s just how these girls are. AdmiGram.com has identified 10 proven female signals that your conversation partner will send you if she’s interested in you.
How to understand that a girl is interested in you
She intentionally teases you
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She sticks her tongue out, smiles, giggles, or teases you. When one person teases another, it’s always a reaction test. In this cunning way, a girl wants to provoke a reaction from you, usually a positive one. The main thing is not to take it too close to heart, or the date will end in an argument because of you.
She moves closer to you
Everyone has personal space they might not want to let just anyone into. Simple physical closeness to another person shows how much we’re letting them into our personal space and how much we like them. Physical proximity increases attraction between two people. But if the girl moves away from you when you get closer to her, chances are you’re not reading her signals correctly.
She touches her hair
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Hair for girls is like a tail for cats – an indicator of emotions and current status. Pay attention to gentle strokes of the hair, pushing it back, and neatly tucking strands behind the ear. You can also tell if she’s bored – the girl touches the base of her neck, which transitions into her hair. Hair touching works for men as well; we’ve all inherited this from primates.
She licks her lips
When a girl does this, it shows that she is extremely interested in you. Perhaps it’s related to dreams of a kiss, but let’s not delve into that. However, if the girl does it very often, it might just be a bad habit.
She actively shares information with you
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If we like someone, we always share something with them, even if it’s not too deep but personal. Girls love talking about themselves much more than guys do. But if she doesn’t like you, she’ll be terribly reserved. All those “Uh-huh,” “Nice,” “Cool” are indicators that she’s not into you.
She’s open and relaxed around you
Forget all those pickup tricks. They never work if someone doesn’t like you. Monosyllabic answers, lack of smiles, stiffness – all of these clearly indicate that you’re not welcome here. On the other hand, a smile, laughter, active participation in the conversation are signs that she feels comfortable with you.
She leans towards you with a smile
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This flirtatious gesture has long been vividly described and studied by scientists. It literally means that you’ve caught her attention, and you’re doing everything right. Paired with “shooting” eyes, this combination can be incredibly attractive to us, guys. And girls know this well and use these tactics.
She does the hand-spinner
If a girl looks at you with her chin resting on her fingers, and her palm is slightly turned towards you, it means she’s ready for a lot. This is one of the most inviting gestures.
She mimics your gestures and behavior
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Another inheritance from our primate ancestors. When we mimic someone’s movements and words, it’s a sign of great sympathy. Women often do this when they really want something from us. It creates a warm, homely atmosphere and a sense of kinship. She mirrors your gestures, making you feel like she’s kindred in spirit. However, sometimes, it’s blatant deception.
She adopts an open posture in communication
If a girl is tense, places an object between you, sits halfway turned, or crosses her arms over her chest – it’s all bad signs. Conversely, an open posture, turning her head and her entire body toward you, suggests that she’s happy to see you and enjoys talking to you.
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