Let’s agree that any man can find himself in a situation where instead of doing ‘this,’ he did ‘that.’ Or even despite all your best intentions, your words turned out to be very untimely. And arguing with a woman here is simply pointless, she’s always right!
The only way to save face in an argument with a woman is to always be prepared for it. Here are a few tricks from AdmiGram.com that, when used, will ensure you never lose an argument with your significant other. These psychological techniques work flawlessly regardless of various life situations.
Arguing with a woman: how to win and be right
Don’t raise your voice
It doesn’t matter what caused the confrontation between you: whether your suggestion to buy her a cake was perceived as a desire for her to get fat or, conversely, your omission of the cake means she’s already overweight.
The key is to watch your tone. No matter which words you choose to defend yourself, always speak softly. Stay calm, and her anger will gradually subside. As soon as she starts speaking in the same tone as you, consider it a victory.
Become the man who listens to her
Men have a reputation for not knowing how to listen. Be the exception. A woman wants to vent and shout? Let her do it. But when it’s your turn to defend yourself, use the words and expressions she used, letting her know that you heard her and understood her point of view.
Use her own words, and you won’t even need to come up with any original moves. The only thing she’ll think about in that moment is that you’re the most attentive listener in the world.
Don’t let the argument drift off-topic
It doesn’t matter what the subject of the argument is: musical preferences, restaurant table reservations, movies starring Johnny Depp, or the American president’s address to Congress—never succumb to provocation and never change the subject of the argument.
Victory or defeat in an argument depends on your ability to not give the other debater a chance to express their disagreement with a pre-prepared counterargument unrelated to the topic. Always steer the conversation back to the subject of your discussion.
Admit your wrongdoing, and you’ve won
Often, winning an argument is more about the aftermath than the argument itself. She will never be able to win a verbal confrontation with you if you first admit your wrongdoing. Leave your pride at the door.
There are disputes where it really doesn’t matter whether you win or lose. In such cases, just pretend you’re defeated, and let your opponent jump around you as much as they want. But you and I both know who’s right, right?
Play on emotions
Very often, women engage in a battle simply because they’re overwhelmed by their emotions. It’s needless to say that men are wired the same way. So, let them run free. We’ve been taught since childhood to control our emotions, no matter how painful it might be for us. Forget that.
Defend your point of view with persistence and dignity. Don’t be afraid to show that hurtful words affect you. For a woman, a resolute man who doesn’t hesitate to display his emotions in the heat of an argument is the best of men.
In the name of argument
Approach any argument with your passion with a healthy dose of skepticism and remember that you can always win by allowing the woman to believe what she wants to believe. Her point of view becomes evident within the first few seconds of your argument. Men often fail in their desire to win an argument just to prove that they can win, regardless of what’s at stake.
Remember that by nature, people are inclined to defend what they believe in. If a man spends all his time just trying to get along with a woman, he won’t have any time left for more pleasant and important things.
